BlogHer: I put a spell on you; when friendships falter & fail and what (not) to do

New post up at BlogHer that isn’t about sex or dating but about friendship.
The lede:
“Is there anything worse than the unvoiced but clearly visible tension
between two people who are supposedly friends–but for some reason
aren’t really, not anymore? Maybe the experience of feeling angry and
resentful toward a so-called friend, but not feeling comfortable
expressing how hurt you feel? Or the worry that a slight or oversight
someone made was actually deliberate, malicious, clearly intended?”

The rest, here,