BlogHer: Great Expectations: Good boundaries make good partners

New post up at BlogHer on relationships and boundaries.  A snippet:
“Did you hear the one about the woman (and a friend) who threw a
birthday party for a friend at her place; only her boyfriend didn’t
come because he had to finish a home-building project? There were
30-odd people in their house, having a good ol’ time, but her boyfriend
didn’t hang with any of them–he had to get his project done, so he kept
hard at work…and girlfriend was fine with that.”
Read the whole thing here.